honesty

Under other circumstances I would have said that honesty is a necessity for all friendship to work, but time and time again, life proves me wrong. Most of the time I have experienced that honesty is not as well received among friends, and that feelings get hurt, and that in most cases people have hard time to do what is called self-analysis.

I wish that people could be certain that friends, real friends, never want to make their friends feel bad.

In any case, even when I have tried to make sure that I use the right words, I end up, many times, being so misunderstood.

So I face the reality of having to choose between being honest or choose to be silent.  The terrible result of such position always ends the relationship, because silence create distance, and distance creates lack of knowledge, and friends then, become strangers…. And that can only makes me feel very sad.